don't say goodbye to the goodbye girl
Put your tongue against the roof of your mouth, where your teeth start, and blow. Then bug your eyes out and shake all over. Congratulations. You are My Brain.
At 9:30 or so Justin's feet turn orange, and a stem sprouts from the top of his head, and he startles and says yikes, I have to get to bed just as my second wind kicks in. Before closing the door he turns, dejected, and says don't stay up too late and then I lie. Then he rolls his eyes, sighs and turns into a pumpkin. A well-rested, responsible pumpkin.
For weeks now (months?) any productivity I have is 32% due to mutant superpowers and 68% due to the heap of cocaine I keep in the flour bin. Thankfully, Justin never attempts baking.
I write until anywhere between 1 AM and 4 AM then get up at 7 AM and make french toast with cinnamon swirl brioche, organize popsicle stick crafts and take the kids for educational field trips.
(child #1 snorts)
(child #2 snorts also)
This is a roundabout way of saying I'm sorry. I've been a sub-par mother and wife and friend and absent in just about every relationship except with the book editor, a.k.a. Priceless Penelope OR Particular Penelope depending on how vigorous she is in headlocking me and grinding her knuckles into my skull to make me relent on the matter of serial commas.
I kid, although it's the truth that she has pipes like a stevedore. Miss P is sublime and she's made the story better. She's amazing. She is from another very clever wholly bookish planet. But I still loathe serial commas.
(Penelope throws ten pounds of donair meat at Kate's head)
(Kate ducks)
(Donair meat hits wall and leaves blast radius of grease, drops to floor. Six raccoons circle doubtfully, sniffing.)
Penelope: You sound like a frat boy!
Kate: (belches, shrugs)
Monday is my 36th birthday, and days before BlogHer when it all goes public, and so it seems right. As long as technical glitches are solved and planets are favourably aligned, I'll share a sneak peek at the book as well as the pre-order link. In the morning I will hit PUBLISH and then spend the bulk of the day throwing up.
It's almost out there. It's so close.
Nothing makes you feel quite so alive as vomiting.
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(later, we embrace)
Penelope: You're absolutely right and I was wrong, and that goes for the entire literary world as well. Serial commas are redundant and clunky and I am willing to bend to your every anti-grammatical whim.
Kate: Why thank you, Penelope. I am impressed with your ability to see reason as well your willingness to concede so publically, on my blog.
Penelope: You're welcome. I'm pleased to have the chance to represent the highest possible editorial standards. Here, there and everywhere. Oh look! I forgot the comma before the 'and'. And you know what? I liked it. It made me feel delicious and wicked.
...
...
Um. Pardon me. Gotta split.
(running)
(ducking)
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I want Goodbye Girl!
Goodbye Girl, mommy.
Goodbye Girl now.
I scroll to it on the iPod, again, and watch my son in the rearview mirror. Sunglasses on, he sits perfectly still, becoming himself, and this is his soundtrack. I smile.
<begin flashback>
We walk the gauntlet of Yaletown dumpsters as usual, headed for sushi lunch. Vancouver is no longer my home city and I am suddenly raised by wolves, so far removed from this life that I gawk stupidly at the raving madmen and cough like a tourist when passing through random clouds of pot.
I'm still dazed at being here at all. I am with John O, once a co-worker and now a freelance client. We weave through the tables to sit down, and we order.
"Are you ever going to stop writing for us, and start writing cool stuff?" he says. "No offense. Case studies are alright."
"Oh, well, actually, ha ha. Yeah, I've kind of been playing with this... fiction... story... thing. It's silly."
He doesn't hesitate. "Why just playing? You should finish it."
At that moment one sushi chef, who slices avocado, turns to the other who nods and flicks a switch. From the mouth of a ceramic panda bear a notorious Japanese opiate, mukoomizu, is released into the air above our heads and at other tables one couple orders the flaming eel, another decides on a fateful real estate deal and another man finally tells his boss to stick it.
"Um. Okay. Maybe I will."
"I'm serious," he continues. "You know how I was in that band? Well, we weren't any better or more deserving than anybody else. The only thing different about us is that we made a demo tape, and we sent it out, and kept sending it out, and then we got a record deal. Every band wants a record deal, but not very many attempt it. They just talk about it. I was standing at the Junos next to Iggy Pop just thinking holy shit, what are we doing here? but there we were, and it's only because we just did it."
(Pluto was a west coast Sloan. There's that, plus the fact that John is my Obi-Wan.)
"Seriously. Just get it done, and send it out."
(One sushi chef, to another: 私は他の生命と遊ぶことを愛する！)
<end flashback>
Friday, July 17, 2009
Reader Comments (22)
(somewhere, Penelope grins)
Just keep sending it out, yup. Will do.
I actually just sent a sweet little piece to the New York TImes Magazine. I figured what do I have to lose, right?
Thank Evan for me for keeping MY dream alive. But give yourself the credit you deserve for working hard and forsaking sleep and making yours happen.
Well done, Kate. I'll be pre-ordering my copy soon.
Oh, and just to set the record straight, Iggy wasn't at the Junos. He was at a club in LA and he came to see the band that played after us. But he was standing in the front row for our last song.
Like many famous people, he's quite short in "real life".
And just do it is such awesome, simple advice. Happy birthday lady.
I forgot the comma before the 'and'. --> I forgot the comma before the "and."
I edit because I care about these pirates--truly, madly, and deeply.
Will you make available to us a tag we can place on our sites for people to link to purchasing your book?
Have a great timer at blogher..I hope to go next year.
*sigh*
Just do it, eh? I need to internalize those words. I do.
you look so damn innocent.
dude, well done. the site for the book is an inspiration and also makes me feel like a nine-year-old boy, which means i'm impresssed on a number of counts. mostly for exactly what John said...having done it, done the work.
i cannot wait to read it.
Although in my head, poor Justin now looks like a pumpkin. With sneakers.
Good luck with the launch tomorrow.
Your post was great - but remember, I kept nagging you to write a book too!! Can I steal some credit... please oh please??? I would like to brag about that too. Come on, throw me a bone - can you deny a preggo woman in her last week of pregnancy? ;-)
xoxDaph
happy birthday.
And golly, sorry, but I'm FOR the serial comma. You cld start a war here on that, I think.
Big love to you, can't wait to get my hands on the book.