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Titillation

If there's one thing bluenosers adore, it's the kind of weather that justifies commemorative coffee table books.

TIDAL SURGE! TREES DOWN! CECIL ZINCK'S BOAT GOT ALL SMASHED UP ON THE ROCKS IN THE FRONT HARBOUR! All aflutter, lining up for batteries, water, propane. Granted, it was only the tail end of a hurricane. But enough to park in front of the fire and scramble eggs on the barbeque.

Not that a power outage is so unexpected — in this province, belch too close to a pole and you'll bring down the lights from Herring Cove to Prospect.

I can't help but feel at home here. Even when I'd rather be at home somewhere else.

Perched at the edge of a meat-grinder sea. Craggy and stunted, churned up. Weathered churches and dead houses and antique barns, not froofy antiques but bashed-up old stuff from ships and garrisons permeated, to this day, with the scents of tar and gunpowder. All facing the growing swell, the angry sky. Fishing boats clinging to the leeside of wharves, battened down.

Rarely the drama that is forecast, but still — candles illuminate as wind buffets the house, and tucked in, in love, we are most fortunate.

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Happy six month / three month birthday, my smiley boy.

Ben's adjusted age is now half of his actual age and from here on out, his prematurity will be rendered less and less significant.

He pulls himself upright to sitting, with help, weeble-wobbling. Squeals with delight at his father and grocery store clerks and book clubbers and passerby, a social boy just like his brother. Giggles when tickled in the folds of his neck. Tells the most fantastic stories.

What follows is the most ordinary of scenes, but I'm happy to share it, because we've been waiting to be ordinary for what feels like a lifetime.

Posted on Sunday, November 4, 2007 by Registered Commentersweetsalty kate in | Comments35 Comments

Reader Comments (35)

I'm glad y'all are protected from the storm. Stay safe!
November 4, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterLuAnn
Whoah - nothing like that ever happens here in the desert, save for some dust storms and the occasional goofball who tries to cross flooded roads during monsoon.I bet your family looks lovely by a candle's luminous glow.Hope the weather passes soon...Love you,
November 4, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterLeigh
I love eastern Canada. When we visited, many years ago now, we almost didn't come back.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJanet
ah yes, the weather porn. i love it too...it brings out the saltwater in my blood, the Scots part of me that loves to imagine virtuously parcelling out my pantry just so so we could all live for a month on its meagre contents. and the part of me that hopes for storms, and the sanctity of that time out of regular life.

glad you're safe & warm. was hoping.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBon
Then I'm not the only nutter staring at Chris St. Clair excitedly waiting to hear the end is nigh?

I get excited when storms are forecast. Give me a good Nor'Easter any winter. I felt rather let down when nothing happen on the weekend actually.

Thought of you though. :)
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterthordora
I just love your writing! I'm with you on storms. I enjoy watching them coming in off the water and watching the clouds swiftly move overhead.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterandrea_frets
"Rarely the drama that is forecast, but still — candles illuminate as wind buffets the house, and tucked in, in love, we are most fortunate."

i love that.

stay that way...tucked in, in love.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commentererin
That post just decided for me my next travel destination. It surprised me, because I was thinking Latvia, but I need to see the meat grinder sea and the dead houses.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterKristin
I was wondering if you were touched by Noel. Good to hear your family is safe and tucked in. Lovely.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterm
Your post made me miss my years in Newfoundland. Where every day was an adventure, if only for the weather and that wild dark sea. Our house was devastated by a tornado shortly after moving here to Illinois, but its not quite the same sense of anticipation and awe. Fear, yes, but nothing good in it. Enjoy the sea a bit for those of us who are nowhere near and long just for the scent of it, even on its angriest of days.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterNicola
I thought about you as I watched The Weather Channel. Glad to know all is well.

ashley
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterashley in SC
this post made me want to visit this place.

your writing, as always, is beautiful.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAshley
I think I would fall in love with the place you call home; I know I adore your sweet little boy(s) from afar. Happy contentment to you; happy ordinary of moments to you all...
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJo
Ben is beautiful. Raspberry blowing like a pro :) And oh how I love his little baby grunts.



November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJennboree
Oh, how cute are they? I love the raspberries... that was something that Peanut never really did (and she's a year now/10 months, and it is true, the difference really starts to narrow very quickly. We've found that she'll catch right up in one area, but one thing will stubbornly remain behind (putting toys down is a big one in our house. She is *just* learning how to put an object in your hand.)
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterb*babbler
What a happy, happy day.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAmanda
Since you live in NS, I assume you know Morgan Davis? This post reminds me of his song, I think it's called "I Like it Here." Happy 6 months to Baby Ben!
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterfiglet
so, what are blugs? loved your little hmm... for evan in response to the blugs. SO good to hear and see you guys. it is a (sadly) diminishing memory ~ those sweet toddler loves on video with the most recent of the traub-babes. and total SWEETNESS to my ears to see yours and rejoice with you guys in it - makes my heart smile! you all are beautiful...
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterHeather ~ Traub Tribe
oh sweet merciful, i came back and found the video and nearly died of the cuteness.

the cuteness!

the cuteness!

i am reduced to drooling and blugging, myself. :)
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBon
Oh sweet boys! What joy! Love the stripes. I love that kid's wardrobe.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterWendy
Hey Wendy.. the stripes were on Ben's Grobag, his sleeping bag which is one of the most indispensible items of babycare we've got. http://www.grobag.ca/index.php?page=categories/index.php&catid=22

Heck, I wish they made those in my size!

November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commentersweetsalty kate
love....

happy birthday, wonderboys, and peace to you tonight, kate.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterpnuts mama
Happy Day little Ben. You are an amazing little man. So beautiful.
November 5, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterandrea
Excuse me while I wipe the tears off my face....Okay, ahem. Wow.I love his little gurgles and breathes and bubbles and his smile just lights up his whole face.

I am still just so thankful to be able to share this with you.You are so beautiful, all of you :)
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJessie
Ben is so beautiful. I loved hearing Evan talk to him/about him. What a sweet family you have.

Heres to more normalcy!

ashley
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterashley in SC
The most ordinary of scenes. The most beautiful. He is so amazing, Kate. So very gorgeous, and happy, and full of smiles for his brother and you and daddy ... who clearly love him as much as he loves you. I am so very happy for you all, today.
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterWhyMommy
'Ordinary' is INCREDIBLE! Moments like this keep us going.



Thanks for sharing.
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterLeann I Am
Awww... happy 3/6 month Little Guy!

Too cute. It's amazing how parenthood really makes you appreciate the little things are the miracles they are - like Ben!
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered Commentermercurial scribe
Sleepbags are da bomb in this climate.

And I swear he said "Ben as love in his eyes". Although I may have been overwhelmed by the absolute cuteness.
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterthordora
Ordinary is great.I am so glad it's here for you, even in this brutally incomplete way.
November 6, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJuliaKB
Oh Kate. I'm so glad you're here.
November 7, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterRachell
What was all that weather talk about? I've got tears running down my face from that beautifully ordinary video, and ya'll are talking about the weather?

Ben is gorgeous. I've never enjoyed a baby video like I enjoyed that one.
November 7, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterheartfull
What a sweetie!! Ben was born a couple weeks before my little Caleb, and even though Ben was so early, and Caleb was on time, they are doing the exact same things!! Ben is actually ahead, Caleb can't pull himself up to sitting yet. You're beautiful little boy is doing so wonderfully. :) And he has an adorable big brother too :)
November 7, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterRachel
I think I have blugs in my eyes, too.

Absolutely beautiful.
November 9, 2007 | Unregistered Commenteremily
I'm glad you weathered the storm okay. I was there for the tail end of hurricane Andrew (I lived in Antigonish for 2 years), and it was nasty. My mom and step-dad actually left for Halifax last Saturday morning (they're doing a tour of Nova Scotia to see where I lived all those years ago), but they only made it as far as Toronto because of the storm. They're in NS now, and apparently it's snowing like crazy!Those "ordinary" moments are the best, aren't they?
November 10, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterCheryl

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